Making yourself SAD to make others HAPPY is foolishness.
We give something of our lower nature to get something of higher nature.
what all I want to say is that , if you are motivating someone or helping someone to get something or achieve something good in life then you can just suggest him/her . You can only give examples , You can't force someone to be that example for others .
let them made their own path
by finding themselves.
If someone is not ready to accept the facts
then please take a break ,
but don't leave him alone.
Always ready to help .
because the Ending point
was shown by
Slowly ans silently you will find that the person will try and at a time will reach to his/her destination. This is your Reward. A big matter of Triumph. People have excuses for each and everything , the person who don't give excuses are known as Perfect .
Time is the only factor that cure everything . So understand this , don't turn your surroundings Gloomy if the other is not on the right way . No second person is so big that he can change your good mood into tense until and unless you accept it .
- help the person
- motivate the person
- zero expectations
- never forget to smile
- repeat above cycle
- I AM DONE
and we should not .
because if we start writing It(destiny)
for others then what they will do .
Sometimes It is better to stay SILENT ,
and just watch the show .